| SunanAlNasai-017-001-16274 | | Abb AlJabbar Bin AlWard narrated: I heard Ibn Abi Mulaikah say: When Umm Aban died; I attended with the people. I sat in front of Abdullah Bin Umar and Ibn Abbas; and the women wept. Ibn Umar said: Why dont you tell them not to weep? For I heard the Messenger of Allah say: The deceased is punished due to some of his family weeping for him. Ibn Abbas said: Umar used to narrate something like that. I went out with Umar and when we got to on uninhabited area; he saw a caravan beneath a tree. He said: See whose caravan this is. I went and I found Suhaib and his family. I came back to him and said: O Commander of the Believers! This is Suhaib and his family. He said: Bring Suhaib to me. When we entered AlMadinah; Umar was attacked and Suhaib sat by him; weeping and saying; O my brother; O my brother. Umar said: O Suhaib; do not weep; for I heard the Messenger of Allah say: The deceased is punished due to some of the weeping of his family for him. He said: I mentioned that to Aisha and she said: By Allah you are not narrating this Hadith from two liars who have disbelieved; but sometimes you mishear. And no bearer of burdens shall bear another burden. And the Messenger of Allah said: Allah increases the punishment of the disbeliever because of his family weeping for him. | The Chapter on Funerals And Invokation in HodHood Indexing, Chapter on Wailing over the Dead in Sunan AlNasai |
